Secrets Are Not Good for Any Relationship
It is a common occurrence that secrets kill relationships.If you have lately been dating a person, you will have a pretty good idea concerning their lifestyle and even preferences. It is not bad to remember though, that the person may actually hide some secrets he is not ready to share with you.If you suspect that something doesn’t connect and you wonder what he is hiding, look out for some telltale signs.
If you don’t know enough or much about your partner’s parents, there may be some reasons for this.First, he might want to avoid the topic in case you would like to meet his parents. Another thing may be that he does not have a good relationship with the parents and doesn’t want you to know the reason. You will need to establish who they are and how they grew up if you are still interested to continue with the relationship.
If you have never met his friends, you have something to worry about.Be careful not to be going out with someone who always talks about meeting his friends who seem to be virtual.Actually, he may be using the friends as proxy for covering someone important in his life or a bad habit. He may try to do this since his friends may not approve of you or you may not approve of them. Regardless of the reason, so long as you want to know the truth, consider using some force so that you are kept in the light.
He may never talk about his work. He may be either jobless or doing what he didn’t say he does.
If he doesn’t mention his exs’ name, be worried. There may be very many reasons why he will not want you to know the names. The reason for this may be that they are still good friends. Their past relationships may be something they loathe and don’t want to talk about them.Either way; you must be sure that he is not hiding something dangerous.
Your new man may not be the angel he portends to be. It is not good to rule out the possibility that your man may simply be shy. Worth noting is the fact that as long as a man is serious in the relationship, he will scarcely hesitate to take you to his home so that you know the place and how he lives.He can also drop in so you can see his place.
Whenever you wonder why your new man is very secretive, simply look out for these signs and ensure he is not trying to keep you in the dark.